TIPS TO BE A GOOD WIFE-



-Even before you are married, pray for a righteous spouse who will be coolness of your eyes.

-After marriage also pray for each other and your children.

-Love him for what he is, it is natural to have differences since you are from different families.

-Love his family just like yours and treat them like you treat your family. Even if they are rude to you ,retaliate only in a good manner. Repel evil with that which is good ,like it is mentioned in our Holy Book.

-Remind him of his duty to his parents and support him in that.

-Dont always nag him. Always try to complement each other.

-Dress beautifully to please him. You should look your best at home and not outside.

-Wear make up and perfume at home

-Give him surprises.

-Speak only good about him to your children, parents, in laws etc

-Your children must see the spark in your relationship.



-Never refuse physical intimacy when he calls you except if you have a valid reason.

-Create a spiritual environment at home

-Remind each other about your duties to Allah 

Disclaimer-I am in no way a perfect wife. This is a reminder to myself  first.

Do read the Seerah of  our pious predecessors to learn about the good qualities they had,how they dealt with their families etc.









Dahlia Mohammed Ali





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